Although we all desire to have a perfect wedding and events, it is never a 100%. There are things that go wrong, things that fall short when going through a wedding event. It is critical for any bride and groom, and their families to understand that there will be spontaneous events that happen during the event that may have not even thought about prior. With different vendors, guests, and sometimes even the weather constraints, some last minute changes are bound to happen.
What does this mean? Is my wedding going to be bad? What can I do to fix it?
-Open communication is a big factor. If we simply just talk out every single scenario with everyone involved in the wedding, we will have a lot more in control than we might have guessed. Weddings are not a preplanned event, they are spontaneous and things will happen and you will see them happen as time goes. For example, there may be unexpected traffic on the way to venue, causing some sort of time over-lapse. It is not what happens, it is more about how we deal with it. It is more important we enjoy our events rather than worry about every little detail. This day will not come back and it is in our hands, either to stress about the minor details or enjoy the party; because either way, you are marrying the love of your life.
Having a responsible sibling, friend, or relative may be a lot more useful than one may think. Event planners and coordinators usually cost a lot, and if it is out of your budget. Find someone close to you that can arrange and make things fall into its place. Brief this one person with every single detail prior to the wedding, and make them in charge of everything. At no point should your family, vendors, or anyone at your wedding be coming up to you to ask questions This will make you as a bride or groom, stressed and have worries on your mind. You want to enjoy your day and events, so make sure someone else can handle everything on their behalves. Trust them and just focus on being happy with your partner.
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